Reasons to Kill My Boyfriend
Every now and then I find a site that just screams, “Blog me!” There isn’t much to read at the site I found tonight; I guess she’s just getting started. But the premise behind reasons to kill my boyfriend is hysterical and her first post made me laugh, so …
October 5th, 2002 at 4:05 pm
i want my boyfriend dead
June 24th, 2003 at 2:28 pm
i want 2 kill my boyfriend he is a **** ing **** slag and he loves his friends more than me and his son
July 31st, 2003 at 10:58 am
My boyfriend is suck a freaking slacker I hate him I wish him gone…
August 8th, 2003 at 11:40 pm
my boyfriend shane watarai is a **** in **** . he cares more about himself than he does about me. hed rather be out w/his friends and **** around and binge drink. he has the perfect excuse for everything, he never steps up his role. hes the worse dresser i met, hes really **** in ugly and hes got a big ego. his dick is small and best of all he thinks he great at sex.
August 26th, 2003 at 3:01 pm
to girlygurl: did u’r bf dress this way be4 u got together and i’m sure he looks the same way he did when u met him…….. so why did u get with him in the first place? sounds like u need to figure out the real problem here….u’rself
August 29th, 2003 at 2:29 pm
As one of those “nice guys” who ends up collecting lots of female friends who love to complain about their horrible boyfriends, the comments on this post just make me shake my head. If your men are such pains in the ass, why don’t you *leave them*??
September 2nd, 2003 at 7:51 pm
my ex-boyfriend is such a **** ing dick. he was married with two kids and didn’t think i should know untill his wife called my phone. then he had the nerve to ask for some head.
September 27th, 2003 at 1:02 pm
my ex is the biggest **** i have ever met in my life… while we were going out he started liking another girl so we broke up then we were hangin out one night and he said he still liked me and the next morning i found out he had a gilfriend the whole time! what a stupid ass drop dead!
September 28th, 2003 at 10:37 am
All the peoplewho want to kill their boyfriend - why dont you just dump him, get a restrainingorder and then get a new one or a girl or alife!
October 12th, 2003 at 6:10 pm
I dont hate my X boyfriend i lothe and dispise his **** ass mother **** en face. I would want him dead but hes going to die in the future sooner or later,so ya might as well wont him to live a life away from me.Chris……..chris chris chris chris.CHRIS! I hate the way he just refuses to live with out me I wanted him to lead a happy life with or without me. That boy is like a leach he suckes the life out of u along with all the energy and love u can posess in this world. I dont know maybe its just me but then if it was…………..Well its not and i dont love him i want him out of my life i though i know what love was and now all i know is that i can not give up my feelings so easily. I am with some one else and he cant stand it ever time I try to talk to him he wont stop bringing him up. I want him out of my life thats all.
October 12th, 2003 at 6:22 pm
My ex-boy friend is the biggest ass ever. Never mide that I was stupid enouth to get back together with him after 8 years apart (we dated all through high school), when we were together before he used to phisacally and mentally abuse me. I thought he had changed!!!
Now we have been going through some rockey times, but he said he did’t want to date other people. Today he had the nerve to show up were he knew I would be with a DATE! After I had asked him to go time and time again with me! I’m a moron and he is a **** ING dick head. I hope he gets some painful, messy STD and his dick falls off!!!!!!!
October 12th, 2003 at 6:25 pm
i met this one dude named travis a.ka. spud. i started to like him and we started to go out but then he started to fet the wrong impression of our relationship. he began to become touchyfeely and i wasn’t ready for more than what we started with and i got pissed off. i went over to my friend’s house one weekend and he came over. i didn’t really mind at first but as we got later into the day he became more horney and more touchyfeely. i told him to stop but he wouldn’t so i yelled at him and walked out if the room. of course he followed me and i told him what i thought so i yelled at him and i continued yelling and yelling. then i needed a drink.lol. he looked at me funny as i walked off. at school i had my friend tell him that i wanted to break up. i think he cared i didnt. i hate that sick,touchyfeely bastard of a person
October 15th, 2003 at 10:30 pm
my boyfriend Blue is misleading. I started going out with him in 99. Then he was so sweet, nice, funny, made me laugh, i just loved to be around him. Now he has anger problem, he cusses me call me names and he even will hit me with out thinking twice about. I really feel like he dont care about me cause of the way he treat me. But he always tell me he love me
October 20th, 2003 at 8:36 am
I love my boyfriend to death. He treats me like a queen and i’m going to be with him for the rest of my life. He would never hit me and he would never dump me. I love him to peices. It’s GREAT having a boy friend like him you all should look for one.
October 20th, 2003 at 8:39 am
Oh yeah and i have no reason to kill him at all!!
November 12th, 2003 at 8:16 pm
OK lady that is riting like comment 16 and 17 we all cant have the love that u got and i honstly dont care because ur making it look like where not trying and that is just sad because u never know what is going on what why the **** whould u be at this site if u “LOVE” ur bf so damn much why the hell wast ur time i just dont get it?
November 14th, 2003 at 6:45 pm
This is the funniest website ever. My exboyfriend Dominick looks like a normal person, but in reality he’s tweaked. First, he thinks he was abducted by **** ing martians. He also likes to collect fish fabric, so he can quilt. He has a secret passion for pee wee herman and clowns. He’s the biggest paranoid chicken **** that ever walked the face of the earth. He constantly talks bad things about his closest friends, and he hates his parents, says he can’t wait until they die and taste their own blood. He has spent 15 years in therapy. It’s always everyone else’s fault. Someone should find his inner child and kick it’s ass.
November 14th, 2003 at 6:47 pm
by the way, he only has one ball
November 15th, 2003 at 4:34 pm
GET A **** ING LIFE…
November 16th, 2003 at 10:25 am
Heather, why are you taking this so personally? It’s not about you, is it??? Is your name really Heather?
November 16th, 2003 at 12:18 pm
i am a lesbian!
November 27th, 2003 at 11:45 pm
I Hate my X-Husband, When we finally got divorced, I couldn’t stand to watch him eat. He never talked when he ate, it was like it took too much brain power concentrating on chewing. I could see the hamsters running in his head, but they were running the wrong way!
December 4th, 2003 at 11:01 am
This guy I liked had a MINOR bad point: he bitched aout his girlfriend to me non-stop– that she bored him, yadda yadda yadda….
I was his girlfriend at the time.
December 5th, 2003 at 8:49 am
I love my boyfriend, but if he ever leaves me i’ll kill him.
December 5th, 2003 at 8:52 am
I love my boyfriend Jacob Nichols,but if he ever breaks ^ with me I’ll kill him. Seriously no joke. The way I look @ it is if I can’t be with him he doesn’t deserve to live.
December 5th, 2003 at 8:58 am
Yea sometimes i feel like he cares then in a instant that all disappears. whycan’t he just express what he’s really feeling???? I sometimes feel like I’m some type of joke.
December 5th, 2003 at 9:07 am
He allways wants to spend time with his friends . It’s like he loves his friends more than he loves me. I just wish we walk down the halls of the school without him stoping to give one if his friends a hug or say hi. I am not selfish . I just love Jacob and want to spend time with him.
December 7th, 2003 at 8:30 pm
I think my boyfreind is the biggest **** of all times. He is the most ungreatful pice of **** at times and sometimes I wish we werent together. But I love him. Why do i always get stuck with the moocher losers that take me for granted and dont realyze how well they got it. And me I cant even get laid when I want to.
December 8th, 2003 at 9:30 am
Although all the comments thusfar have been noteworthy, *I* believe I have the best reason to kill my boyfriend. Why? Because he decided to create this link on his website and now all of you ladies have an excuse to vent rather than just BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIENDS! We’ve all been there, girls. Move on.
(P.S. My favorite is Meghan’s, btw.)
December 11th, 2003 at 7:23 am
MY EX AND ME BROKE UP A MONTH AGO AND HE JUST TOLD ME THAT HE IS GOING TO GO OUT WITH MY FRIEND BREANNA… THATS NOT EVEN THE MOST **** ED UP PART OF IT!! THE REASON WE BROKE UP IS BECAUSE MY EX BEST FRIEND AND HIM WERE **** ING BEHIND MY BACK!!! I HATE CHARLES AARON LOWE III AND NANCY ANN RICE AND BREANNA FAYE TAYLOR!!THEY ARE ALL MENTALLY **** ED UP!! HE TOLD ME THAT I SHOULD BE HAPPY 4 HIM CAUSE HES GOING ON WITH HIS LIFE AND I SHOULD DO THE SAME BUT HOW CAN I BE WHEN HE DID ALL THAT **** TO ME!! BUT ITS ALL GOOD CUZ I GOT ME A NEW MAN AND HIS TITTYS ARENT BIGGER THAN MINE!!!
December 13th, 2003 at 7:25 am
I dont have a boyfriend. want to know why? Cause I’m a guy.
December 15th, 2003 at 7:14 am
then get out you moron
December 15th, 2003 at 9:31 pm
I HATE MY EX!! HIS NAME IS ANDREW PATTON AND HE IS THE BIGGEST MUTHA **** ING LOWLIFE I HAVE EVER GONE OUT WITH, LET ALONE MET!! I ONLY KNEW HIM A WEEK B4 HE ASKED ME OUT, AND THEN HE DUMPED ME AFTER LKE A WEEK BECAUSE I HADN’T PUT OUT!! NOT THAT I HAD A CHANCE TOO CONSIDERING HE NEVER HAD TIME TO BE WITH ME BECAUSE HE IS A CHEATING MUTHA **** A!! THEN… HE MADE ME WAG SCHOOL TO HELP HIM CATCH UP WITH HIS SCHOOL WORK BECAUSE HE WASN’T ALOWED TO COME TO SCHOOL FOR A WEEK!! THEN HE GOT ME DRUNK AND TRIED TO MAKE ME HAVE SEX WITH HIM!! WE HAD A BIG FIGHT AND THEN HE WENT OUT WITH ONE OF MY BESTEST FRIENDS WHO TOLD ME SHE HATED HIM FOR THE **** HE DID TO ME AND SHE PROMISED SHE WULD NEVER GO OUT WITH HIM!! AND SHE DID. I FOUND OUT HE WAS CHEATING AND SHE DUMPED HIM AND TRIED TO BE MY FRIEND AGAIN!! GET REAL EMMA! U BACKSTABBING BITCH!! HE GOT ME SMOKING AND TOLD EVERYONE AND STARTED PAYING ME OUT ABOUT IT EVEN THOUGH HE SMOKES!! U REALLY **** ED ME UP!! BUT U NO WAT!! IM MOVING ON AND IM GETTING BETTER!! ANDREW IS MAKING DEATH THREATS TO ME AND THREATNING TO HARM ME!! YOU GONNA DIE ANDREW!!! EVERYONE WANTS TO KILL YOU!! YOU’LL BE DEAD B4 YOU CAN GET UR HANDS ON ME!! HOPE YOU BURN IN HELL YOU **** ING **** !!!!!
December 24th, 2003 at 12:05 am
My boyfriend is an amazing **** . He has yet to take me on DATE one and we’ve been going on and off for a year. He constantly calls me drunk and multiple times and when I do return his calls he’s the biggest dolt, just mumbling and incoherent, so we have a phone conversation for about 2 minutes. Besides that he’s really really selfish and it seems like he cuts into whenever I’m going to speak. He is such a punk-ass!!! I’m really close to ending it all…
December 31st, 2003 at 8:53 pm
Nope guys, my boyfriend takes the prize, he is a piece of S*** who takes everyone and everything in life for granted, he doesnt appriciate anything and he’s so selfish! You would think being together for a year and a half would create sometime of bond right?? nope!! Im always this kids last resort when he doesnt have something to do, and when we do make plans, someone or something else comes up where he cant make it ( aka a band rehersal, hockey game ) Glad to know im ur first priority!! Thanks! People who im not even going out with treat me better than u! ur an a**hole and u dont deserve me, i was always too good for u! My moms right, in 5 years im gonna be like Karl who?? I’ll give ya a call though if i ever need someone to screw me over, i know i can always count on u for that!!!*** bring the sun, or im gone*** im sick of selling myself short!
January 7th, 2004 at 1:06 pm
look yer my ex-girlfriend is making my life a living hell. and i want to know if anyone knows how i can pay her back but without any body finding out it was me. i have thought of the obvious like throwing a flaming touch through her window but i want something simple but affective. if you have any ideas text not ring text me on my mobil 07717524720 ok hope to hear from some one soon MIKEY
January 8th, 2004 at 7:23 am
So I was driving up the back alley to my parking lot gate last night. I come up behind this bum walking down the street. Not a big deal. Oh wait. He’s got his pecker out and was taking a piss while walking! I wasn’t sure if I should get out and kick his ass for pissing on my street or congratulate him on successfully taking a leak while continuing to go about being a bum.
Regardless I’m just glad he’s not my boyfriend.
January 14th, 2004 at 1:31 pm
my boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years, then 4 months later he broke down in tears telling me he still loved me even tho he had another girlfriend that he loved as well as me. As if this wasnt disturbing enough, we finally decide to be friends and he tells me to ring him the next day. so i do and he deny’s ever telling me he loved me and that he no longer wants to be even friends with me. I HATE MEN!!! ALL THEY DO IS **** WITH WOMENS EMOTIONS! BASTARDS!!
January 15th, 2004 at 3:30 am
After reading all of your comments, I think the main problem is that you are all very negative and bitter. All you do is talk about how you were wronged, and how such a great injustice has been done to you. Think of this, you attract the type of people that are at the same emotional maturity as yourself. For instance, if you are angry, bitter, difficult to please, and so on, you will attract the same type of people. Maybe you should take some time to look at yourself, and to BE THE KIND OF PERSON YOU WOULD LIKE TO ATTRACT.
January 17th, 2004 at 2:31 pm
my boyfriend’s a **** ing punk…he’s thinks he is hot **** . most people think so as well…but it’s not cool to be so damn conceited. he is very immature and never follows through on any of his promises..we’ve been together three years and we haven’t even left the state for vacation or anything at all. he knows how much this means to me but always has an excuse. the sex is unbelieveable…sometimes i tell myself this is why i am still with him. and of course i love him. but what do you do in this love hate sort of thing.
January 18th, 2004 at 12:39 pm
my boyfriend is the biggest freak to walk the earth. Yesterday he says “when you do get married it probably wont be me”. the freak. He says nasty stuff then says he cares about me in the next breath…make your f*cking mind up you moron!! The stupid sh*t don’t know what the hell he wants, we have been together for nearly 10 months..Im wondering if its even worth going on in a dead end relationship…he obviously dont think his future is with me..well fine, you **** !if you think u can go find some b*tch better than me(which u never will) go ahead f*cker!
January 22nd, 2004 at 11:11 am
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now, and his controlling behavior not only bewilders me, but also frustrates me. First, it started with him not wanting me to wear makeup and then he started complaining about the “suggestive” clothing I was wearing, and now it’s getting to the point where I can’t plan trips with my family because he states that I’m being “selfish” and not considering what he wants. I’m not allowed (note “not allowed”) to stay in any kind of contact with my old boyfriends (who are more like friends/acquiantnances). I’m so frustrated and although I care and love him so much, I feel like I’m always doing the apologizing and compromising. And then if I don’t compromise and do it HIS way, then he says I’m being selfish and inconsiderate. Anyone out there have the same problem and what have you done about it, if anything?
January 22nd, 2004 at 7:54 pm
THE OTHER DAY ON BEST FRIEND **** ED MY FRIEND EX-BOYFRIEND AND THATS NOT RITE Y WOULD U WANT TO **** UR FRIEND EX-BOYFRIEND AND U HAVE A MAN AND HE CAME OVER THAT SHE DID IT TO THE MY FRIEND EX- BOYFRIEND AND SHE WILL GET IF MY FRIEND WOULD DO THAT TO HER SHE WILL GET MAD MY BEST FRIEND GOING TO TELL MY FRIEND THAT SHE SHOULD NOT MAD CAUSE HE THE BOY DIDNT LIKE HER ANYWAY ALL HE WANTED TO DO IS GET SOME HEAD FROM HER THAT S NOT RITE AND PLUS MY BESTFRIEND NEW THAT WAS HER EX- MAN MY BEST FRIEND IS NOTHING BUT A HOE AND SHE KNOW IT TO .
January 24th, 2004 at 12:50 pm
I WISH MY X were dead! Its the same s**t from the comment I wrote in August. And to the girl who wrote about the way my boyfriend dressed, it got worse u stupid b***h! I hate my boyfriend, and he a gutless c*******ing f****t. He has no balls and he’s selfish. He plays on your emotions and frankly he doesnt give a s**t about anyone except basketball and football. SHANE WATARAI, you’re 30, you’re sad! Id wish your ugly face would burn in hell!
January 28th, 2004 at 7:42 pm
I don’t know why I hate my boyfriend. I guess I am just lame. Hes perfect and he tries really really hard to be the perfect guy for me. I thought that it was that he tried to hard but thats not it .. everything he does makes me cringe when he talks to me I want to turn to him and say BLAH BLAH BLAH i care not what your saying to me !! I feel really bad for him . I have tried to break up with him but he cries and makes me feel like **** so in the end I am back with him … Ahh I just want out of this relationship !!
February 12th, 2004 at 11:59 pm
MY b-friend is not understanding we are both very busy and I try to make time for hime, he gets mad when i try to spend time with hime he is a basketball player and he is obessed with his game and its really starting to piss me off **** the b-ball game don’t worry about that **** all the time damn can i get that through his **** ing head
February 14th, 2004 at 5:27 pm
its valenties day and i havent heard from my boyfriend in three days and when i try to talk to him he makes up an excuse why he cant talk and then he never answers my calls and never returns them. just recently i found out i could possibly have skin cancer and all he had to say to that is sorry i cant come see you im too tired but youll be fine. **** him and everything that means anything to him.
February 17th, 2004 at 11:05 am
I hate my boyfriend. He is a **** ing mama’s boy. We didn’t even get to spend Valentine’s Day together. Then yesterday I was forced to witness him parading around with his mother during all the “cute” things we do together. I am going to barf if I ever have to witness a grown man latching onto his mother like she was his lover. He can’t make any time for me because he doesn’t seem to think it’s important. Yet he’ll make all the time in the world for her. And she is such a catty bitch, I want nothing to do with her. And I think I am going to dump his sorry ass this week. Clay, **** off!! You are a total ASSHOLE!
February 17th, 2004 at 12:28 pm
The good news: 40 or so psychotic females that hopefully won’t ever maintain a relationship long enough to have kids, perpetuating this cycle of self-abuse, self-loathing or whatever mental illness of the month is to blame. The bad news: Watch out guys, there are 40 or so soon-to-be available females looking for another **** ed-up relationship to cling to. Making their life miserable, your life miserable, the dog’s life miserable and anyone else stupid enough to get caught up in their google searches for “kill” and “boyfriend”.
geesh.
February 17th, 2004 at 8:32 pm
Wow, all of your boyfriends sucked so bad, I felt that my jackass bf deserved a place in this little Hall of Fame too- he sure did work hard to earn it! He and I were together for 6 months and, originally, he was a really good friend that became more…he was super sweet in the beginning. He had trouble finding words for telling me he cared, but at least he always showed it, and made me feel loved. Actually, he acted like he wanted to **** ing MARRY me, always talking about me meeting his parents and vice-versa and how we would move in together and move to CA together and blah blah blah. As time went by, he just started treating me worse and worse- like he’d rarely call and often forget about or sleep through (!) our plans. We virtually only saw each other on the weekends so it was a big disappointment to me when he’d flake out. But most important he just started acting really distand- never validating his feelings for me or anything. So I confronted him about it, saying I was really lonely in the relationship and he’s all like, “I just don’t feel attachment to anybody- not even my family.” And also, “I guess…any relationship I’m in…it ends up being one-sided like that.” I was just like what the **** ING HELL? This kid talks outta both **** ing sides of his mouth- one second he’s gushing about how much he loves his family and me and his cat and the next he’s just so…cruel and cold. So I dumped him- I was super nice about it, too. We decided to stay friends and THEN a week later he gets all mushy on me and asks me out again. Since we’d talked things over, I figured maybe this could work out after all. Again, he was super nice last weekend, but this week he keeps saying, “I’ll call you tomorrow night.” Nothing. I see him online, he logs right off. Tonight he did the sign on. sign off thing TWICE in a row! I just feel like he’s lying to me about even wanting to be with me in the first place…and he’s sure not doing a very good job of it either. He’s so **** ing selfish- only acts caring to me when he feels like it. I just wish I knew what the **** is going on in this relationship.
February 18th, 2004 at 11:22 am
The bf and I are on a “break” right now, and it’s so difficult. When i start to miss him, all I have to do is think about his bitchy, overbearing **** for a mother and then I forget about missing him.
February 24th, 2004 at 11:05 am
My boyfriend doesnt give a **** about anyone but himself. I recently had surgery and have been out of work for a month. He is always making comments about how hard he is working, and he can’t help out at home (even though i just had surgery) because he works too hard. He seems to forget the 14 months he was out of a job and not even looking for one. I supported him the whole time (he lives with me) and paid all his bills, speeding tickets, tickets from accidents, and did all the housework. I am the one that even got him a new job because he never went out to look for one himself. He is a useless bastard that is probably only with me because I take care of him. I havent been able to take care of him for a month and he has to bring it up every day! He also has mommy-issues and cant seem to cut the umbilical cord.
February 24th, 2004 at 1:44 pm
Seems like the “momma’s boys” are everywhere. Well, my momma’s boy’s momma got hers the other day. She was trying to move a large appliance and broke her wrist. I love instant karma.
February 24th, 2004 at 1:46 pm
One more thing. The reason the momma’s boy’s momma doesn’t like me is because one of the momma’s boy’s friends raped me and it’s apparently my **** ing fault. Bitch
February 29th, 2004 at 4:31 pm
Oh my, …Ive been with a lot of girls…And Ive always been amazed at how gulible and stupid girls are…Ive done things to girls that you wouldnt do to farm animals, and they come back for more…Dont get me wrong ,Im not bragging ..Girls say one thing and do another…This is what makes men nutz…Take this into concideration..When she says no…….DO IT………and make it hurt….Faustus…….
March 1st, 2004 at 8:38 pm
I feel like im stuck with my BF, i dont know how i ammeant to get out of this thing. Im scared all the time alll the time. The thing i have o do to keep him happy is, dont talk on the phone mpre than 10sec, dont wake him up, dont make noise when he is sleeping, i have to wake him up when he tells me to and it has to be on the time he said ni minute early or late. Im not allowed to talk to ANYONE about our relasonship, who am i meant to talk to when he spend 12pm till 3am with his friends. He is unemployed, he is JUS PLAIN MEAN, tells me he dont cared and he shouldnt have to make an effort to care……. I cheated on him 3 years ago, to try and get out of it, thinkin if another guy was in the picture it may work, seemed like my only answerrealised very soon that it wasnt going to work.., but he took me back and said that i will be forever making it up to him. I cant trust him with anything ie to come home at nite, answer his phone, tell me wots going on in his life
OMG HEEEELLLLPPPPPP MEEEEEEEEP PLEASE
March 2nd, 2004 at 12:45 pm
Faustus, you are **** ed up.
March 5th, 2004 at 3:19 pm
my boyfriend is a big fat loser. he ditches me all the time and constantly lies to me. he apologizes but then does it all again the next day….. arg. i hate him but i love him.
March 9th, 2004 at 6:17 pm
My boyfriend is a jealous **** , he can’t even trust me to cross the **** ing street by myself and we only been together for 3 months. I need help before i hurt him or make him leave for another girl, I love him very much I need him to just accept us and be happy.
March 25th, 2004 at 10:43 am
Everyone email northjerzeyguy@aol.com and tell him what a gnat dick he is. he’s complete scum of the earth and deserves to die of AIDS. he’s a f*****g janitor and tells women who ask that he’s an operations manager. yeah, right he is. HE’S A JANITOR. he talks about every woman who he’s ever f****d (and he’s f****d a lot). he’s 34 and he kisses and tells more than a 13 year old. he wears a strap on because his c**k is so f*****g small and he reuses the stockade of d****s he collects from each girlfriend on the next one. while he was with me he asked me to grease up the big vibrator and stick it in his a**. i couldn’t do it because i got sick to me stomach. if he talked about me, he’ll talk about you, your girlfriend, your sister, everyone so for the sake of all gurlz out there tell this piece of s**t we’re all wise to him now.
March 29th, 2004 at 7:10 pm
You all are so **** ing mean get over yourself and move on and find the right one instead of being pissed and upset all the time. Like me i am madly in love and will stay that way forever. I once dated a loser that was so **** ing mean and abusive but then i moved on and now i am engaged and happily in love. Stop bitching and move on!! It’s best for you!!
March 29th, 2004 at 7:15 pm
Hey everyone i am engaged and so in love but me and my boyfriend always fight and i start most of it and dont get how. What should i do i stop fighting and arguing with him i am so afraid of losing him and without him i am absolutly nothing can anyone help me i love him and dont want to lose him, he is the one the love my life my best friend and without him i am nothing please help me for my sake and his sake we are so in love and i dont want to lose him! PLEASE HELP! i would appreciate it very much thank you for listening!!
April 9th, 2004 at 9:31 pm
I hate my boyfriend b/c he makes jokes about me all the time and not very nice ones at that to all his friends and all i can do is listen and i have told him thousand times to stop and he wont. Once he hit me in front of everyone and no one helped me another thing is he calls his son “that keep a nigga baby” which kills me when he says it. I **** ing hate him and i hope he die! I am so sick of his **** . I want to leave him soo bad but i do not know what to do. My friend who i have dated in the past wants me and my son to live with him and i am thinking about doing it. Should I?
April 9th, 2004 at 9:32 pm
I hate my boyfriend b/c he makes jokes about me all the time and not very nice ones at that to all his friends and all i can do is listen and i have told him thousand times to stop and he wont. Once he hit me in front of everyone and no one helped me another thing is he calls his son “that keep a nigga baby” which kills me when he says it. I **** ing hate him and i hope he die! I am so sick of his **** . I want to leave him soo bad but i do not know what to do. My friend who i have dated in the past wants me and my son to live with him and i am thinking about doing it. Should I?
April 15th, 2004 at 5:10 am
i hate my ex boyfriend cos after being together for 2 1/2 years i got galndular fever and i was infectious for 2 months and after that time he dumped me for the **** ty reason that i wasnt satisfying his sexual needs. WTF???? like the world needs any more mother **** ing jerks like him… they can all go to hell and **** eachother cos thats what pricks are fit for…
April 16th, 2004 at 10:52 pm
MY BOYFRIEND IS SUCH A JERK I AM GIONG TO KILL HIM HE GOT A GIRL PREGNANT BEFORE HE MEt ME THEN HE GOT ME PREGNANAT AND While I WAS STILL PREGNANAT HE GOT ANOTHER GIRL PREGNANT HE WILL DIE
April 19th, 2004 at 7:33 am
HEY I CAN UNDERSTAND WHERE ALL YOU GUYS ARE COMING FROM BUT YOU HAVE TO REALIZE ALL GUYS CAN BE ASSHOLES WHETHER THEY REALIZE WHAT THEY ARE DOING OR NOT. NOW THERE ARE SOME THAT JUST LIVE TO DO THIS TO US BUT THERE ARE A FEW THAT WITH A LITTLE GUIDED HELP FROM US THEY CAN TURN AROUND TRUST ME ON THIS ONE. IM WITH A GUY RIGHT NOW THAT I AM MADLY IN LOVE WITH BUT DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL HIM? CAN ANYONE HELP ME OUT? IN LIFE YOU HAVE TO DECIDE TO BE HAPPY OR PISSED OFF THE WHOLE TIME AND UP UNTIL 2 OR 3 MONTHS AGO I WAS GOING FOR THE PISSED OFF WAY OF LIFE BUT NOW THAT IM ENJOYING MYSELF AND MY BOYFRIEND IM HAPPIER THAN EVER. IM NOT TRYING TO SIT HERE AND BRAG BUT I AM TRYING TO HELP YOU GUYS CUZ IVE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT…TRUST ME…IVE BEEN TO HELL AND BACK ON MORE THAN ONE OCCASION!!!!!
April 23rd, 2004 at 7:33 pm
my boyfriend is the biggest **** in the world. Iwon’t go into details. Just trust me on this one.
April 25th, 2004 at 1:26 pm
My ex is the biggest **** of all time, after dating/being engaged for 7 years he ran off one month before our wedding with a stripper. I moved across the country where I thought he’d never find me but 4 months later he showed up on my doorstep saying he’d made a mistake and wanted to get back together, I told him he’d have to prove it. He said he was going to move to where I was and prove I was his girl. He left and I didn’t hear from him for 2 months. Turns out he had knocked up the stripper and they got married. I guess he really got what he deserved.
April 28th, 2004 at 4:06 am
Girls you gotta wise up and ship out. These loosers are never going to meet up to your expectations. It’s been a blast reading through these though. Makes you realise the axim’ there’s always someoen worse off than yourself’ sooo true.
April 30th, 2004 at 1:18 am
I HATE MY **** EN BOYFRIEND. HE ALWAYS MAKES ME DO THINGS FOR HIM AND HE NEVER **** EN APPRECIATES ANYTHING I EVER DO FOR HIM. I HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF HIM WHEN HE’S SICK, AND CLEAN UP AFTER HIS DUMB ASS. I HOPE THAT WHEN WE DO BREAK UP, HE **** S SOME DUMB BITCH AND CATCHES ALL THE STD’S KNOWN TO MAN KIND
May 7th, 2004 at 8:28 am
my boyfriend is freaking stupid. i love him and he knows that i love him very much. we’re the whole story of the “opposites attract” stuff. I’m just frustrated with the little things. He always talks about other girls infront of me, like their boobs and what not, and they way he dresses + the music he listens to all just make me wanna slap him. ARGH, it’s **** ing frustrating sometimes but i don’t want to leave him and I’m been practicing the whole “just push it aside” crap but it really really is hard to push it aside when it is repetitive.
May 8th, 2004 at 5:52 pm
My BF Joe is such an **** . I spend so many nights sitting at home mad at him while he is out with his friends. I just want to **** another guy so he can ffel hurt and then while I am at it have each one of his family members leave him and tell him that he is a piece of **** and to grow up
May 16th, 2004 at 4:40 am
i hate my boyfriend so much right now. all he cares about is himself. right now he is out with his friends even though we had plans. he always **** ing does this I HATE HIM!
May 19th, 2004 at 10:06 pm
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Everything always starts out great and you think you will be in love forever but then…slowly but surely you’re stuck with a selfish disgusting controling drunken drugged up loser that does nothing but drag you down into a miserable exsistense. But because you’ve been together for so long and because you remember how it used to be you just can’t walk away! I gave up everything for him and put my whole life on hold just to be with him and help him move forward with his life. I moved to Italy for a job while we were dating and managed to maintain our relationship. Because I was so in love with him I came back 6 months later to be with him. After that my family hated me for ruining my life. NOW I’M STUCK WITH THIS ASSHOLE. The only time he cares how I feel is when I say I’m leaving. How he can’t live without me, how he’ll kill himself if I ever leave….I’VE GOTTA GET THE **** OUT OF HERE!
May 23rd, 2004 at 7:21 pm
Well, my exboyfriend was a total f*****g loser. I hope he dies so no one else ever has to deal with is huge ego, small dick, and nonexistent mind.
ALSO, my current boyfriend can be a complete s**t as well. In fact he was a complete c********r this evening. Basically I hate men.
June 27th, 2004 at 9:36 am
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August 9th, 2004 at 2:32 am
i HATE my boyfriend!!! He’s SUCH an idiot! He’s a tiny man hes not even a man! hes more in love with his stupid video games and always finding things to buy for his **** ing stupid little brother and stupid arrogant sister!! He’s constantly nagnagnag and he’s such a square doesnt even do anything sweet or romantic! He’s **** ing ugly and thin and doesnt dress himself up to compansate his ugliness!! We’ve been together for 6yrs and i’m getting confused why i’m with him anymore, i’m so tired of him someday i’ll probably cheat on his back so he’ll know he doesnt know me atall and he should have treated me better!!! i HATEHATEHATE my stupid boyfriend!
August 10th, 2004 at 8:43 pm
What the hell is wrong with u girls. U can,t stand the dicks but u won,t do anything about them, well don,t cry to me then. If he asked to get head just pull down his pants and bite or cut it off. Then chop of his head and wright loser on his forehead. Put it on a stick for the world to see. It’s just like my book: Kill and run like hell. Ok Ok I don,t have a book like that and don’t attempt to do any of those things above. It will be messy and You will go to prison and no **** is worth that. Anyway do u get my point get rid of the mother **** ers don’t cry about em.
August 20th, 2004 at 1:07 am
ALL THESE COMMENTS ARE AMUSING TO READ. WAS FRUSTRATED W/ MY BF AND ALL THIS JUST SEEMED TO CALM MY NERVER KNOWING OTHER GURLS FELT PISSED WITH THEIRS TOO! THANKS GUYS! NOW I CAN FINALLY PEACEFULLY GO TO SLEEP! GOOD HUMOR!
August 22nd, 2004 at 12:50 pm
I caught my ex boyfriend cheating on me red-handed. I got out of classes early and thought i would pop in and see him. I walked to his bedroom to find one of my good friends laying underneath him topless. She had gotten her boobs done about a month before. I calmly walked out of his place and never spoke to him again for three whole years. I went back to my hometown for my class reunion and ran into him. He asked why I have never returned his calls in all of these years. I told him what I had seen. The lying piece of **** still denies it to this day. He told me that she had spilled something on her shirt. I was like so thats why you were on top of her. 3 years later and this fool is still lying to me.
September 18th, 2004 at 12:19 am
All you bitches are stupid
September 29th, 2004 at 2:40 am
my ex is such an **** we went out for 1yr and a half and he never took me out on a date,ignored me every so often for three weeks, his valentines present to me was some dumb dog his mother bought,he wouldnt even go out with me on my 21st birthday or even get me a card or even go out with me for xmas or new years.he rarely answered my calls and bored me stupid with stories of the great dates he had with his ex girlfriends.i wish i could ignore him,i wish he would stop being friendly and smiling at me…i wish i felt nothing for him.maybe i can hire an assasin to kill him. or to kill me. **** you dermot dont punch me on the shoulder and tell me to take it easy dont you dare touch me.half the time i want you back the other half im glad i dont have to deal with the stress of someone who couldnt be bothered calling me or making the effort.and someday soon the scales will tip and i will be closer to being glad to have escaped the entrapment of a fake relationship.
October 6th, 2004 at 9:03 pm
my boyfriend who i have been with for 3 years is a complete loser. he is a lazy slob who is as dumb as anything and refuses to get off his ass and get a real job. we have to rely on my mum to give us money when we struggle to pay rent and bills. and im forever going to be living in dodgy rental properties that have been invaded with spiders. he wonders why i wont touch him, well, hes constantly making snorting noises with mucus, picking his toe nails off everywhere, forgets to have showers, picks every single sore/pimple on his body and has breath worse than my dog. i am disabled, and he is suppose to be my carer too. the government pays him to be my carer. does he do any caring? hah! i dont think so. i can go days without important medication. and when im screaming in pain and i ask him to get me painkillers, hes playing **** ing day of defeat and ignores me. he is suppose to keep the house clean too as i cant clean well. i have to get my mum over everyday to help me clean because this stupid bushpig turns the house upside down and i just cant cope with the mess! i tell him over and over to keep the house as tidy as possible, just simply picking up after himself, but he cant even do that. the only reason im staying with him is because my mum wont allow me to move back home with all my animals. and i would do ANYTHING for my animals, i love them so much and i dont want them homeless or with someone who might not love them. so for now i have to stay with this pain in the ass. when my condition worsens mum will eventually have to give in and let my pets move home with me because i will need proper care that this jerk cant give. and im telling you now hes not going to be moving into my parents house with me. i dont want him mooching off them evern more. i wish everyday that i will miraculously get better and i can get out of this situation. by the way, one valetines day, he gave me a block of cheese because the faggot didnt have the decency to get me anything and the cheese was all that he had on him. he also has very annoying parents and his dad is a **** ing pervert who creeps me out. my dad, who is normal, thinks hes a fat bum too. dad gets so pissed when he has to come around here and to handywork cause the son of a bitch has no skills whatsoever. i also swear to god he is spitting in my meal replacement drinks. he gets really annoyed when he has to get off his ass and make me those drinks, and one time i found some green thing floating in it. he also stuffed up my medication this morning. and because i didnt know i accidently took it and the 2 medicines arent suppose to be mixed.
February 28th, 2005 at 1:49 pm
I hate my boyfriend. he is a rage-aholic **** who thinks that the sun rises and shines on his pecious ass. he is the most conceited person I have ever met in my whole life, he calls me wretched names like **** , and worthless idiot, all my friends and my family hate him, and and….he cheats on me. gee, who do i really hate, i guess i must hate myself if i am willing to put up with such a mother **** ing asswipe any longer.
March 5th, 2005 at 6:35 pm
Girls, Ladies, Women, get over it i know it is hard and you hear it over and over again but all that negative energy stored inside you wont help you get over him. And men could sense that. Hes your ex for a reason and see it as a positive thing, go out there and have fun or just occupy yourself with things you enjoy, pick up an activity, love yourself F the guys. For those who are still with the guys that are treating you bad really do some soul searching and think why your still hanging around. Are you happy? And How long could you put up with this situation for? Cause trust me you cant change a man, he changes himself, talking from experience. Listen be nice to those who have been bad to you and you will be suprised how things work out but just learn to walk away and dont go back on your words. Trust me my last boy friend who at least i thought was my boyfriend treated me wrongly, i lived in London him in NY, did not tell me he had a child, till i found out on my own while spending some months in the city, wanted us to have a company together but kept so much secrets, in a lot of ways i feel he tricked me, used me, abused my love and trust but i know i am a beautiful person in and out and i will move on and find someone that will treat me how i want to be treated since he did not know how. So many things he done to me but he has no place in my mind so i do not want to look back on them as some of what i experienced will make your mouths drop. My advice to you forget the bad apples and work towards what you want out of life, feel fabulous about yourself, go out on dates with people you wont normally accept dates with just to have a laugh and just try new things and in time what you want will come to you. Bye Ladies…
March 7th, 2005 at 10:48 pm
all girls are stupid f*****g sluts. you just want money and cheat ob people.
March 10th, 2005 at 6:41 pm
Hi, guys, I`m the most stupid woman in this world. I gave the cell phone # of my good girlfriend (I`m even a Godmother of her child! - she still is single) to my boyfriend because he has lied to me that he needed some contact to me “just in case”. Well, that **** started to send her TXT messages, and she never told me that she was sending him e-mails and letters behind my back, with photos of her child and of herself, etc., and when I found it out, she even was upset that I was angry about it. She never explained me what it was all about. I feel pretty frustrated about this, because I and my family was helping her all the time with everything, and now I got this **** back. The father of the baby she has is married to another woman, and I have the feeling that she just is looking to find another “sponsor” for her next child.
March 10th, 2005 at 6:47 pm
She had her first child with that married man just because he was rich and she thought she could squeeze money from him. But when he found out that he only served as a sperma donor for her, he sent her to hell. I trusted her for a long time until I found out that she simply is a coldblooded calculating bitch, and that the next step is to get my boyfriend. She even told me today that he was forwarding her my e-mails and they had fun of it. Of my feelings, and of my love! What stupid I was to trust both of them! I even don`t know who hurt me more, if him, or her. It`s very painful and I don`t understand why they did it to me. I was the only one who always was standing by her. And now this.
March 10th, 2005 at 6:52 pm
So girls, I`m not sure if you can trust even your best girlfriends when it comes to men. I am very disappointed and I won`t give any # of my girlfriends to my future boyfriends anymore. I guess men really think only with their pricks, and not with their heads. They don`t care about our emotions. They care about their comfort. That`s it. Sorry that I wrote so much but I`m so upset. Good luck, girls, and get rid of men which are not worth your love.
March 11th, 2005 at 11:55 am
my ex-bf is a cheating scumbag, jordan my the fleas and ticks of a thousand camels infest your ass!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
March 13th, 2005 at 9:22 pm
My boyfriend gets on my last f**king nerve!!!! I love him and he loves me, but he just confuses me sometimes. One minute he’s so sweat and caring, and the next he’s just so cold and bitchy! Whenever we’re arguing about something, after a while he just says “Never mind, just forget it!”and won’t talk to me for the rest of the day. Once, I was over his house and he didn’t speak to me for 10 hours!!!!!!!! What a bitch! He better get his **** together soon cause I don’t have time for it. He also always blames our problems on me and will hardly ever admit it when he’s wrong. Oh, and the today when he didn’t talk to me for 10 hours, we went out to dinner with his family and he didn’t even speak to me then! I really do not like him right now and just wanna kick him in his balls. ASSHOLE!!!!!
March 16th, 2005 at 10:32 am
Whoa you all! Not only boys are jerk. Girls are confusing boys. My ex girlfriend was really bitch and **** cat because she dump me because of alchocol, but it was normal as my family, and she told me that she want to try it (the exactly what she say “well I want to try it, don’t be mad at me”) I was like okay. I thought it was okay with me and her. But later she just got blow out emotional against me and blaming me for everything that I don’t really did. I live in Washington and she move to Texas, and started smoking the cigarettes and get drunk all the times with her mom in Texas. I can’t really believe that she do those stupid stuff. I don’t know who she is now. I am not that big achocolism, but she is now. I hell don’t know who she is. I feel like my good girl is gone.
So you should think about it. Most girls have big **** boyfriends because they don’t give up, and are huge whiner. It’s true fact compare to boys. Boys simple accept what girls have done wrong. Girls treat boys as big deal whatever boys have done wrong. So here I am telling you if you find ANY **** boys, don’t go out with them! Find MR. RIGHT! I never cheat or hit or anything to my ex girlfriend but she did one time and I simple forgive her in a minute. Now I hear girls are out HUGE crying and emotional about it. I feel like different here because I don’t have girl mind but I can understand how can boys or girls complains or not for.
March 16th, 2005 at 11:33 am
Kieth i love ya to death but if you keep flirtin your ass off with that little scum suckin road hor, right in front of me i’ll beat you into an unrecegnisable pulp!!! and beein goth isn’t “freaky” live with it, i love you. (jackass)
March 18th, 2005 at 6:39 am
i have just been dumped after a 4 year relationship and a year and six months of a joint mortgage. The bastard did it cause he loves someone else, while i had given up my carrer for him, lost contact with a lot of my dearest friends, moved away from my family, cooked and cleaned and held down a job which i hated but done it for the extra cash so we could enjoy ourselves and our new life together.
Obviously that wasnt enough now we are living under the same roof in different rooms while we sell, at the same time as my heart is breaking this WANKER is going out on dates with this girl and i feel like i’m dying inside as much as i would’nt wish this depression i have on anyone i do wish that he could feel this aching pain and empty death like misery i am continuing to suffer.
March 25th, 2005 at 3:20 pm
you people are all pathetic losers, how about instead of telling everyone else in the world ur boyfriend problems, u tell him hes being an ass. and also, if ur boyfriends are such big problems….why the **** are u going out with them!?!?
March 25th, 2005 at 11:23 pm
All of you **** ing women are stupid. I can’t understand half of the things posted on this website because you’re all **** ing illiterate. Maybe if you were not so ignorant and stupid you wouldn’t be treated in such a way. You’re all a bunch of losers and it’s funny reading this stuff, not because of you boyfriend or whatever, but because of how stupid and dumb you are yourself. All you women do is bitch and moan, no wonder half of the posts have guys on here who seem to like their friends more than you. When you posted this, did you think of all the things you’ve done to him to make him act the way he has? The problem is obviously you!
March 28th, 2005 at 10:18 am
i really hate the way my boyfriend is NEVER on time even when weve talked and screamed and shouted about it millions of times. like right now, he said hed be round at 4:30 pm and its 7 and he still isnt here and when he gets here hell make up some stupid excuse that is about as believable as pigs flying. i wouldnt mind so much if he hadnt done it before but its EVERYDAY!!!! im at work all day so i dont see him and he works 2 hours in a morning as a cleaner so hes out with his mates all day and when it is our time without his mates, he chooses them over me and turns up at my door when HE feels like it. i bet hes with all his friends right now, knowing full well that hes late and isnt even bothered that he hasnt called or at least let me know whats going on. i seriously get so angry that i could kill him and not even feel the least bit guilty about it!!!!!!
March 28th, 2005 at 8:13 pm
Guys your are a lil messed up! I ADORE my boyfriend to death. Sure he can be annoying sometimes, but so can I. Why would you want to kill anyone? Kill is a very strong word. If you feel that way about someone, then why the hell are they your boyfriend at all? Crazy people! Cheers, VALGAL.
March 30th, 2005 at 1:28 pm
Well….you girls are b******g too much. If something is wrong with your boyfriend, you should talk to him and not write it in some stupid blog like this one. I think that if you would be really honest to yourselves and to your boyfriends, you would talk about your problems. And about sex stuff. Chicks are constantly b******g about their boyfriends beeing bad at sex, but when they get a question about it from their boyfriends, they say “wow it was the best ever!!!”. Talk to the dammitt!!!!!
P.S.: By the way. I think that my friend Miha is right about that stupid gossips. But what I think, is that you all dirty bitches need just a HUGE C**K INTO YOUR MOUTH TO SHUT THE F**K UP!!!! And BTW I dont want to hear anything about your stupid chick problems. Go to the schrink dirty bastards.
bye, bye
March 30th, 2005 at 1:59 pm
Ummm… wow.
I’d been with my x-GF for over 5 years. I paid and supported her through college. Paid and faught for her to get custody of her kid. Supported both (emotionally and financially) until I was laid off and my UI began to run out. She refused to find work or help around the house.
She was so emotionally dependant on me, I couldn’t follow through with my own career goals until she was gone. By the way, she sucked me dry on every level until she finally got part-time work at a donut shop. She slept around on me regularly until I was unable to support her and her son fully. Her earnings went to her social life.
She eventually decided that having a son was cramping her life. ~Nice. I wonder why so many guys are **** ed up? Not everyone starts out as an ass-munch or emotionally sick, they choose it by being the victom one time too many.
Do what I should’ve done, and leave them without guilt or emotional blackmail. Everyone deserves to be happy. I’d learned that too is a choice.
Good luck to you all…
March 31st, 2005 at 11:15 pm
My turn . . . I hate my boyfriend because he is like an empty ball of rage. He is always angry for no reason at all. He acts like he hates me but claims he doesn’t and doesn’t want to break up either. Why can’t he just be nice to me then? I always thought if you like/love someone then you just automatically be nice to them. Somehow I got ripped off.
Please pray for me!!!
April 1st, 2005 at 9:07 am
Hi Dexan,
What can I say after reading your comments? …Leave him, be happy, and perhaps your BF will seek what prevents him from being happy and appreciating life’s gifts.
If you love him (truly love him), I’d suggest you resist his fear of solitude and give him that chance. Just a thought…
Royael
April 1st, 2005 at 1:20 pm
Do I want my boyfriend dead? No, that would be too much of a favor for him! I want him to be on a stick in a fire and roast the living **** out of him! My boyfriend is Mexican/Italian and let me tell ya that is the worse combo to be with!!! You don’t know which side is worse. The piece of **** is controling, abusive, angry, and on top of that I have to deal with 2 baby mamas. Ha, it gets even better! We have been together for a yr. now. And that year has been the **** en worst year of my life. I met this nice, caring, got-his- **** all together guy and yea 3 months later he became a **** en creature. Everything is his way, and if we fight over it then its always my fault. I spent 9 months apologizing for **** he did wrong. That mother **** er sucked the life out of me. And I am stupid because I took it. And the sad part is we now live together and I told him to get out and guess what that mother **** er did? Not **** !! Told me he wasnt going anywhere. So how that **** do I get rid of him? I am not ready to give up the perfect apartment which I found, **** I pay for it most of the time. Girls, you have someone that you know is not the one for you don’t try to change them- THEY WON’T!! Cus god forbid I tried it too many times. The worthless mother **** er won’t ever get anyone like me cus if he does find some other girl ha, she’ll only be in it for the money. Cus it sure as hell ain’t gonna be for his baby-mama drama, or his abuse, or his so called anger problems!! So one question left …..why tha **** do all the good girls get the **** ed up guys?
April 1st, 2005 at 2:14 pm
Hi Julia,
Doesn’t sound like he’s worth the stress. I’ve seen this personality type before, and would like to offer a suggestion if you’re game? I don’t know much about the situation or this guy, but here’s the worst case cure anyways…
Talk to the landlord (if they’re the approachable type) and tell him you’re taking over the lease/rental agreement. That is assuming the BF’s name isn’t already the primary rentor. If he is, then there’s a way around that too.
For now, explain to your landlord you’re the one paying the bills/rent and either you or your BF will be leaving at the end of the month. You’re only being a considerate tenant by explaining that your soon to be ex cannot make rent and will be problematic for the landlord if you were to leave. Remember to explain how happy you are with the apartment, and wish to continue on but no longer want this guy to be a problem for either of you. Important!! ~Explain you can’t stay if “he” knows you are still going to live there. If you’ve been a good tenant, there will be no problems.
Now, the mooch… Tell him you are leaving him at the end of the month and you’ve already spoke to the landlord about moving, explaining he’s already someone in mind to take over. If the BF asks where you’re moving, tell him it’s with someone who makes you very happy.
Start packing! This ensures your stuff won’t be stolen, damaged, disputed or mixed up with his crap. It also sends the message to the guy it’s over! At every opportunity tell him your done with him. Several days (even a week before) “moving day” have a friend or family member come by and help you “move into your new place”. Stay with them a couple of nights, coming back periodicalyy to clean the nearly empty apartment.
After a short time your BF will get sick of hanging around, pack, eventually leave. Check back with your landlord during those visits to ensure no damage is done to the place. They appreciate that kind of respect, and will be even more vigil about the BF’s presence there. Who knows, maybe Bozo will have already dropped off the key to the place and have left?
Move in to your new, clean, fresh life! As for the “messed up” guys, force them to date you, and not move in for as long as possible. Give them enough time to show their true colors. You deserve respect, there’s no reason why you can’t enjoy that fact!
Good luck to you…
Royael
April 1st, 2005 at 6:57 pm
god!! i cant stand my boyfriend hes such a whiney, moody, little bitch!! and i s wear he has no common sense!!! everything he says annoys me lately i cant even talk to him on the phone with out getting a headache…. and when i do see him he begs for sex, ughhhhhhhh that just aggrivates me and makes me not even want it!! oh whats a girl to do hes a nice guy for the most part just very very very needy and im super independent
April 1st, 2005 at 7:52 pm
Hey, I’ve got one to beat you guys. My boyfriend dumped me to get back with his (third) ex-wife. We kind of got to be friends again, sort of, the past few months, and I was getting over him okay (though I really loved him a lot and he said he wanted to marry me and have kids with me back then), and things were okay. His ex-wife/girlfriend (who he complains about all the time, and fights with every other day) came in town this weekend, but whatever — I thought I was okay with it. Then he BROUGHT HER TO A PARTY AT MY WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WTF???!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I totally ignored him all night, then went to have a drink with my clients/friends, and HE FOLLOWED US WITH HER, and sat right in front of me with her all over him. THAT’S why I want to kill my ex boyfriend. Good one, huh.
April 2nd, 2005 at 10:21 am
ok, so what if people are bitching about their boyfriends on this blog, hello did you ever think that they have tried to talk to their boyfriends about their concerns in the relationship and it still doesnt change?? or the boyfriend says that’s not true, im not like that, why are you being mean??? ya know then you think ok maybe im exaggerating a little, so you let things go but then it happens again, and again…. but then bam outta no where he does something that totally blows your mind and makes you think things are going to be better…… and not for nothing but if someone started a blog on why i hate my girlfriend…im sure the guys would have plenty to say….
April 2nd, 2005 at 3:37 pm
men who mistreat women are inhuman, they should all be rounded up against a wall and shot.hahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
April 2nd, 2005 at 8:25 pm
I want my peice of **** boyfriend dead because that **** cheated on me with are best friend david. That bitch david knew that brian was my man and he hooked up with him anyway. Hell I want them both dead.
I’m more man then david will ever been so I dont know why brian thinks he needs to get his dick sucked and suck other dicks.
April 2nd, 2005 at 10:43 pm
MY ex is the biggest dick head n cheated on me and he also has a baby girl. He thought i would never find out. He lives on my block and … while his girl is not here …… he is the biggest hore bag ever.. i wanna kill him rip his dick off n show it up his asssss…..
April 6th, 2005 at 2:09 pm
yall some lame ass chiks that complain bout their exs cause they cant get no bf no wonder y they dumped u
April 6th, 2005 at 2:15 pm
i think that yall need some serious mental help if u want to kill some one cuz of a guy if u take a chance n go out with them obviously there is some chance that u guys might break up but yall blonde chiks dont think bout this
April 7th, 2005 at 11:20 am
Hi Marissa,
You know… you have an valid point! Who you “choose” to attract has more to do with your state of mind than “dumb luck”.
What it all comes down to is, how much responsibility do we really want to take for problems or bad reletionships? Miscommunication is not any one person’s fault. Again, good point!
Thanks,
Royael
April 7th, 2005 at 12:00 pm
well thank u Royael u r one of the few people that think i have a point
April 7th, 2005 at 12:05 pm
marissa, u got a valid point
April 7th, 2005 at 2:21 pm
Anytime Marissa…
Uh, I sure hope there’s more than a few people out there that agree with you.
~Royael
April 7th, 2005 at 2:52 pm
lol sorry for askin this but r u a guy or a gurl
April 7th, 2005 at 3:00 pm
i have two questions i am only in seventh grade n my bf said he is never gunna break up with me n i kno i wont ever break up with him so is it possible we could get married? also my friends bf is alwayz getting mad at her cuz he is believin his friends over her dont u think she should dump him after a while? o also why would a guy go out with a gurl if he doesnt like her ne more but he used to?
April 7th, 2005 at 5:13 pm
My boyfriend has blamed me for being raped.
April 8th, 2005 at 7:50 am
LOL!
Hehe… nope, not gay or a girl.
Just seen and lived alot is all. Well, I’d say it’s possible you may marry your bf! It’s kinda rare, but who knows, besides it doesn’t really matter what anyone thinks except the two of you.
It sounds like your friend might want to consider leaving her bf. Holding onto a memory isn’t worth living in constant misery. Life’s waaay to short. Either thay’ll discover how much they mean to one another, or learn from the experience, and eventually move on to much better things. Sometimes a “break” is best for everyone. But, that’s just my oppinion and it really doesn’t matter either because it comes down to what they believe in the end.
Oh, and Adeline (below Marissa’s messge) your bf’s an idiot… period. If he can’t be there for you when your in need… and you very much are, dump the Ass-clown. I hope you’re surrounding yourself with people that are in support of your wellness and helping you deal with your experience. I’m truly sorry…
~Royael
April 8th, 2005 at 9:02 am
Hi Adeline,
About my (brief) comments above, I still agree with them. It occurred to me that your bf is likely going through his initial reaction based on helplessness or guilt. It’s definately something you need to get him to open up about. I didn’t mean to come off that ignorrant.
Take care…
~Royael
April 9th, 2005 at 6:17 am
I love my bf soooooooooooo much i could go on and on about how much i love him but all my friends hate him and r like begging me to break up with him so itz like choosing i kno my friends shouldnt be making me do this but what do i do?
April 9th, 2005 at 8:16 am
My boyfriend is the smelliest person i have ever met. He has a real farting problem….whenever we are together he is constantly farting his head off. He doesn’t bother to run to the bathroom. The worst part is, it smells freakin’ rancid. I mean seriously…it could kill a small animal…he thinks it is funny, but i think he needs to get his ass cleaned.
April 9th, 2005 at 12:07 pm
HOLY S**T you’re all screwed up in the head…neway let me make a few points:
1 if ur bfs all suck so damn much break up w/ em!
2 if u HONESTLY think your bf is perfect…hes prolly f****n’ around behind your back
3 who gives a f**k, they’re just guys neway(no that doesnt mean im a lesbian) if it’s the right guy…he’ll know to treat you right & you’re not gonna go to a website to complain about his sorry a** OR to say how angelic he is
April 13th, 2005 at 7:21 am
Hi Marissa,
Are your friends giving you any reason for why they think he’s no good for you? That is what it comes down to.
If they care more about your feelings than their own “status” of how much time is spent between all of you, then maybe they should be told that he does make you happy. As friends that should be all that matters.
Laur8927…
Hehe, yep your right. 90+% of all guys are exactly like what you say. Same with women, you never know. The point is is the person your with worthy of spending your time with to find out?
There’s not much use in complaining to anyone for the mistakes in judgement we do in good faith. If it comes down to a point that the last person you’re with effects your judgement towards the new one in your life, then guess what?! ~the new relationship won’t work either…
It’s not a race, or status play as to if or who your with. It’s about being happy and trusting the one your with. Like I said earlier, take a long enough break to deal with a perceived betrayal and do it on your own terms. That’s about my “two cents” worth…
Cheers,
Royael
April 15th, 2005 at 10:36 am
My ex boyfriend was one of the worst guys you could meet. His ego was larger than a football field, and he was the most self centered person alive. When it come to he and I, I was always in a state of confussion. When he would tell me to talk, he would then tell me to shut up. He told me to go out with friends but everytime I did I was scolded for leaving the house. I would clean his laundry and then he would piss all over mine. I was never pretty enough, or smart enough, I could never do or say anything that would please him. He couldn’t understand why I would want him to take me out, though its was eleven months before he bought me my first dinner. Lets just say Brian was not very happy with himself let alone me. Its weird I tolerated everything for a year, all the **** he put me through, all the times he made me feel like I was nothing more than a dog, I stayed with him till he hit me. It was weird how it happened…I knocked on the bathroom door while be took a shower and asked him what time he was leaving for work, about ten minutes later he kicked down my bedroom door grabbed my shoulders and threw me into the wall. I have been in relationships like that before, and I sure as hell wasn’t going to do it again, so I left. I haven’t seen him in about four months. I hope he dies.
April 15th, 2005 at 5:30 pm
omigod Toni i was in the exact type of relationship. He would hit me, make fun of the clothes i wear, (because i actually cover myself) and he would make rumors up about me. Well, i got rid off him it was hard cause as soon as i like someone i fall for them pretty hard. So yes, it ws hard to do. So now i try not to fall too hard and I’m doing pretty good. MY bROTHER WAS KILLED IN A car accident and He came to his funeral, my ex didn’t even care. I am much better. So ladies do your self a favor. U ARE BEAUITFUL AND SMART AND SHOULDN’T HAVE TO DEAL WITH GO FOR THE BEST MAN FOR YOU IF IT DOESN’T WORK, MOVE ON, IT’S OK TO BREAK UP WITH A GUY.
C YA
April 15th, 2005 at 5:40 pm
O ya, and marissa YOU AND YOUR “BOYFRIEND” WILL SADLY NOT LAST YOU ARE IN 7TH GRADE AND KNOW NOTHING OF THE PROBLEMS A MATURE MAN WANTS FROM A WOMEN SO WHEN YOU HIT PUBERTY MAYBE THEN YOU WILL UNDERSTAND THE CONCEPTS OF HAVING A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE. So because you are probably a hot headed pre-teen i hopefully will have a reply about what you think about this little column.
em
April 17th, 2005 at 12:55 pm
Really, Ladies. If your boyfriend treats you so bad and is making your life so miserable, Then why are you still with him?
April 18th, 2005 at 5:41 am
Hey girls.. I love ya all.. not all guys r bad but some r… I was married for 8 years and had a great relationship with my wife until she started cheating on me with my ‘best friend’ .. I was torn and really lost something of myself. She took something away from me that left me incomplete.. I understand your pain.. understand mine from a man’s perspective.. Live happy GIRLS!!!
April 18th, 2005 at 9:29 am
Hi Emily,
Your assesment of Marissa isn’t based on fact. In fact it’s based on your experiences alone. It almost sounded like an assault of character instead of advise, so maybe you should take some time to reflect why your own relationships turn out the way they do.
I know lots of people that married their highschool sweethearts. Just because the majority of us weren’t so fortunate to find the right one right away, gives no reason to judge their happiness.
Maybe you should be asking Marissa for advise instead of offering it?
Royael.
April 22nd, 2005 at 10:24 am
I want to kill my boyfriend because he is sleeping with someone else and it’s not the first time I have seen it with my own eyes befor but I keep going back to him but if he is dead than I cant go back to him
April 22nd, 2005 at 10:33 am
hey well i can’t kill my boyfriend i don’t have one hah ah ahahhahahhaha well g2g sorry
April 27th, 2005 at 1:42 am
Ok my boyf is sat next to me as i write this, i dont wanna kill him like, but i hate the way that he thinks that he cant be himself around my parents, he wont come over anymore because he doesn’t think he can be himself and that they will not like him, but he’s being totally stupid cos they really like him. Can anyone reply and help me! I need to tel him not to be so stupid. Thanks love aj xXx
April 27th, 2005 at 8:55 am
My **** ing boyfriend chats it up with other girls online. then he gets mad at me when my guy friends call me! **** er go to hell
April 27th, 2005 at 2:21 pm
sadly emily is probly right but i hope she is wrong and Royael u know she is right too
April 28th, 2005 at 9:07 am
MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ALMOST A YEAR AND A
HALF, I REALLY DO LOVE HIM MORE THAN ANYTHING, HIS HEART IS GOLDEN BUT HIS HEAD IS EASILY PERSUADED BY HIS CHUMP FRIENDS BECAUSE HE IS THE “PLEASER”"FOLLOWER”. HIS AGE HAS ALOT TO DO WITH IT, HE’S 21 AND ALOT OF HIS FRIENDS SUCK. MY COMPLAINT IS, HE SAID HE’D BE THERE FOR ME WHEN I WAS ABOUT TO GET MY PREGNANCY RESULTS FROM THE DOCTOR AND MENTIONED THE GUYS GOING TO A GAME AFTER WORK. I CALLED HIM WITH THE “POSITIVE” AND HE TOOK THE NEWS WELL, SAID HE’D CALL ME AFTER THE GAME AND THE CHERRY ON TOP, HE NEVER CALLED BACK…………..IM DONE!
April 28th, 2005 at 9:59 am
ALICIA I’M GUESSING YOUR PROBABLY IN HIGH SCHOOL AS WELL AS YOUR BOYFRIEND, I’M OVER 25. MY GUESS IS ONE OF THREE THINGS-1.HE HAS A LOW SELF-ESTEEM(CAUSED BY PARENTS OR A DEMEANING LAST GIRLFRIEND)CAUSING HIM TO NOT FEEL GOOD ABOUT HIMSELF AND THEREFOR AFRAID YOUR PARENTS WONT LIKE HIM, MAYBE AVOIDING THE SITUATION IS LESS PAINFUL. OR 2.DEPENDING ON HOW LONG YOU HAVE BEEN TOGETHER, MAYBE THIS MAKES HIM FEEL THAT THIS FEELS “TOO SERIOUS” BEING LIKE “ONE OF THE FAMILY”. OR 3. HE’S ACTUALLY GOT SOMETHING TO HIDE AND FEELS LIKE IT MIGHT SHOW ON HIS FACE (CONSCIENCE BOTHERS HIM,THATS GOOD & BAD
SEEMS LIKE YOU NEED TO DIG A LITTLE DEEPER TO FIND A CLEARER PICTURE OF TRUTH. DO YOU KNOW WHAT HIS RELATIONSHIPS ARE LIKE WITH HIS PARENTS, DOES HE HAVE ALOT OF FRIENDS-WHAT KIND OF GUY IS HE? OUTGOING OR QUIET? ALOT FACTORS IN ALICIA…….ALOT
April 30th, 2005 at 6:58 pm
i love my boyfriend to death. litterely, i want to kill him right now Mike Slagle. **** ing ass. cant appologise for **** or accept responcibility for anything. he ruins everything special and if i knew i wouldnt go to jail, id cut his **** ing heart out.
May 3rd, 2005 at 1:13 pm
I dislike my boyfriend as well. A few weeks ago he started acting all strange, and he was acting like he’s disoriented and distant (You know what I’m talking about ladies, you know what someone’s like when they have a crush on someone). I could tell, because he works at a fast food restaurant, and for some reason at some point in time everyone just wants to get into eachother’s pants. Which is like, totally BARF.
Anyways this dude starts getting really bitchy at me, I broke one of his childhood heirlooms and holy **** he couldn’t wait to ditch me. We got back together about a week later (Wasn’t hard, we’ve been together for four years and we also live together) and then he starts talking and THEN when he thinks I’m complacent he says “Oh, there was this girl at work…” -Who is a total failure, she’s 26, has a kid, her ex lives down the street and she lives with her friend’s parents. Actually, I hope he gets with her, and I hope he tries to live a life with her and her little bastard so he realizes that my small tendancy to break things is spilled milk compared to that **** in train wreck of a woman.
May 5th, 2005 at 9:55 pm
I want to KILL MY BOYFRIEND when we go out and he acts like he doesn’t know me. It drives me INSANE.. i tell him OH i’m good enough to **** but not good enough to walk with what the **** ! Then it makes me mad when i’m horny and he doesn’t put out! geeezus!!! He just got back from Iraq he was out there for about 7 months. He comes back and tells me that he doesn’t trust me. he thinks that “i’ve been going out with other men” typical guy. He only thinks about himself! I HATE THAT AND THATS THE ONLY TIME WHEN I FEEL LIKE KILLING the **** ER!
May 10th, 2005 at 10:12 am
To everyone that’s been checking out and submitting to this blog, please take care of yourselves. We aren’t the only ones in the world with our own issues. If we don’t care enough to ask why or offer kind patience to those we care about, then don’t expect any in return.
Life’s a two way street, Good luck everyone!
~Royael
May 10th, 2005 at 10:20 am
Oh Yeah! …Marissa,
Don’t listen too much to other people’s oppinnions about you and your BF!!!
Only you can answer that question in your heart, not me or anyone else. Yeah, the odds are rare, but odds apply only if you both agree they do. If you feel that you honestly love each other, then screw whatever ne one else thinks because they can’t feel what you do. By the odds, most people don’t care enough to sincerely put themselves in other peoples situations.
Good luck and happiness to you…
~Royael
May 11th, 2005 at 3:46 am
This is mainly for Matt who says all girls are stupid and illiterate…well babe, I think that the most annoying thing about men is that they think all females are bitches and should be treated like a front door rug…mainly for **** s such as yourself to wipe their feet on. Well I am here to tell you that not all woman are bitches and hey if you would rather be with your friends than your gilfriend maybe you should reevaluate your sexuality. I think your confuses honey. Not to be a bicth or anything but men who are constantly downing woman need to find theirself. Your obviously not who you think you are.
May 12th, 2005 at 5:18 am
hey Merelie i know what ur going threw my bf the same way but we have kids together not only that theres 6 kids 1 mine 2 his 3 ours so but ive been with him for 7 years that i thing i just tell hime to grow up and if u dont like it dont let the door hit ur ass on the way out but hes still here lol
May 12th, 2005 at 10:04 am
hi!!!!!! i just wanna say that i like this who dosnt even no im so pissed i wanna tell him but 2 scared but anyways this sux
May 12th, 2005 at 6:09 pm
I hate that im so stupid. I knew my boyfriend was a cheating **** , but for some reason he made me believe otherwise. Until today when I finally learned the complete truth. If i dont leave him now i will never forgive myself for this.
May 14th, 2005 at 4:56 pm
I hate my boyfriend sometimes.. he rather plays pool then to be with me, and the sad part is. i am a pool player too.. so how far does he go?? Well i think he loves the pool table then me.
He used to be romantic..now the relationship is dry… He won’t even buy me a drink or even ask.. He is too cheap… i have to pay for everything on a date…. Maybe going out for 5 years is too long for him.
the people on this board who think it is easy to dump that person…. are wrong!.. if you love the person.. it is really hard! But how far can you take???? I think it depends how much you love the person.. LOVE SUCKS!!!!
Thanks for listening!
May 17th, 2005 at 6:05 pm
My boyfriend is an **** . I catch him doing stupid **** and he lies and then find a way to blame me for it. He should thank his lucky stars he has me, there are not many women willing to screw a broke fatass. In fact, I’m not sure why I’m willing to do it, I know I could do much better. He bitches at me for DAYS if I go do something with my friends, or I send an email to my ex, yet I catch him emailing his ex (who was also fat) and he goes to baseball games with his loser friends and doesn’t invite me. Honestly I must be on crack. I wish he would just get hit by a train and end my misery.
May 19th, 2005 at 9:05 am
omg tell me tis isnT the worst boyfriend ever :1he talks to othe girl “friends” than me 2 HE NEVER CALLS ME. 3 he doesnt close his eyes when we kiss
May 20th, 2005 at 7:03 am
Quit trying to kill people all the dang time. That’s why America is bad because people like ya’ll are always talking about killing people. Ya’ll are really stupid. Ya’ll are going to go to hell talking about that crap.
May 20th, 2005 at 7:41 am
Hey…I hate my boyfriend “Jake” (dumbass) because I think he’s cheating on me for this girl named brandi…I mean brandis kool but….he likes her! He leaves me in the hall for her and walks with her in class instead of me! Then he is joined in everything she is in, and has practically all of his classes with her! Then he says i tell my friends everything when really he’s the one who tells brandi everything! then he says i make him look like a bad person! well personally i think he’s a man- **** !
May 20th, 2005 at 9:28 pm
Well, ladies, it’s good to know that I am not alone. I also dated a guy who simply took advantage of all the love, kindness, and compassion I had for him. We were together for about a year and 3 months. We started off living near each other but then I had to move for a job half-way across the nation. After some time I noticed that he became distant. Also, everything out of his life was an empty promise. From, “I’ll call you back in a little bit” to “you’re birthday present must have gotten lost in the mail”. Looking back, he was always full of empty promises, I was just caught up in all the “love” whatever that is, that I was too blind to see it. What I have learned is a few things: 1) rely on your close friends to be your judgment since often times when you’re in a relationship, your judgment is clouded and 2) Purchase the book called “He’s just not that into you”. and 3) Lose all contact-trying to be friends after a bad break-up is not possible. On the bright side, I’ve met a pretty groovy guy and I enjoy his conversation. So I’m moving on to something better ladies, and so should you…you deserve better : ) Stay strong!
May 21st, 2005 at 7:52 pm
My boyfriend blows me off the work on the damn custom speakers in the back of his car… uh..uh, sorry baby, I gotta put a new subwolfer in the back of the car - or some other overly expensive worthless piece of testosterone **** . Um, ya, grow up. That’s something that a drunken teenage frat boy would do, pounding down the street to get attention from girls. His damn new speakers or whatever can kiss my ass!! ( that ’s all I think he’s interested in anyway!!)
May 22nd, 2005 at 6:57 am
i thought my bf and i had a good loving relationship (of 6 yrs) and family with our three children together and i just found out that he fathered my best friend’s baby who is now 2 yrs old. she was pregnant while i was pregnant with our second child. it makes me see blood when i think the worthless c*********g **** s that i stupidly chose to trust would have sex first of all and then keep all this s**t from me. believe me i don’t wish death on anyone but i do wish them both a life of hell and torture and i will do my best to fullfill that for them. f*****g gutterslutting, c********g pieces of garbage!!
May 22nd, 2005 at 7:14 am
i also know that in time i will get over it but for now i’m a raving lunatic with overwhelming thoughts of TORTURE! drama isn’t it fun?? makes the world go around i suppose.
May 22nd, 2005 at 6:57 pm
hey whats up yall i got an ex boyfriend and i love him to death but i would never kill him i couldn’t even think about doing a such thing we been together for a year 8 months and 2 days but our relationship has been on and off but no matter waht i will always love him i think that you guys shouldn’t say that yall wanna kill your boyfriends or ex because if you hate him that bad you should just move on and go about your buisness.
May 23rd, 2005 at 12:42 pm
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May 25th, 2005 at 10:07 am
what i have read in here all sound like my ex bf he t