And really, when you want to profess your love for someone, what could be more meaningful than biting off each other’s ring finger?

… it had to be our ring fingers. We were both just out of rough relationships, and wanted to both reclaim and be rid of those fingers… this has a permanence to it as well. You can take a ring off your ring finger, but you can never put your ring finger back on once you take it off. It’s something that will last forever — it’s a physical testament to how much I actually do love him.”

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  1. Jesus. Whatever makes you happy I guess, but at what point do you begin to question the mental state of these people? Most of that stuff at BME is just a little too extreme.

    Well…really **** ing extreme, actually.

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